Parapsychology and Ghost Possessions in Hawaii: A Real Talk

Let’s talk about something a little spooky, a little spiritual, and very human—ghosts, spirits, and what happens when the two worlds (ours and theirs) collide. Especially in a place like Hawaii, where cultural traditions, spiritual sensitivity, and respect for the unseen run deep, this topic hits close to home.

Whether you’ve had a strange dream about a loved one who passed away, felt a weird vibe walking through the forest, or heard stories of possessions and hauntings, you’re not alone. But what’s really going on? And how does parapsychology help us understand it?

What Even Is Parapsychology?

Parapsychology is basically the study of things that science can’t fully explain—things like telepathy, ghosts, psychic abilities, and near-death experiences. At its heart, it’s about understanding what happens to the human mind or soul after we die. According to this field, when our physical body gives out, our consciousness—what some call the soul or spirit—lives on.

Now, whether you call it spirit, energy, mana, or something else, the idea is that it doesn’t just disappear. It exists and sometimes communicates, especially with people who are naturally sensitive or open to that kind of connection.

Communication vs. Possession

Here’s where things get really interesting—and often misunderstood.

A lot of people think if someone’s talking to spirits or sensing strange presences, they must be possessed. But that’s not always true. In fact, most of the time, it’s just communication.

People who are sensitive to spirits (some call it a gift, others see it as a curse) often receive messages or impressions from energies around them. Think of it like a radio signal—you’re picking up on something that others don’t hear. But just like you can turn off a radio, people can learn to manage that sensitivity too.

One experienced practitioner described it like punching a time card. After a day full of spiritual activity or helping others, they mentally “clock out” and tell the spirits, “I’m off the clock. Don’t bother me.” It’s not just about being able to receive—it’s also about setting boundaries.

This is important because people who don’t know how to “turn it off” can feel overwhelmed or even go into mental distress. That’s why guidance and mentoring in this area are crucial, especially for those who’ve had experiences since they were young.

Are There Good and Bad Spirits?

Yes, just like there are kind-hearted people and some not-so-nice ones, the spirit world seems to reflect that too.

Spirits that are called “negative” or even “evil” are often those who lived painful or destructive lives without redemption or healing. They carry their trauma and darkness into the afterlife. They didn’t get closure, support, or peace, so their energy remains heavy. They become what some traditions refer to as “lost” spirits.

These spirits may cause disturbances—not always in a Hollywood-style horror show, but through mood changes, strange dreams, weird sounds, or just a persistent bad vibe.

But again, most of the time, these interactions are more about communication than possession.

The Reality of Possession

Now, let’s not pretend possession doesn’t happen. It’s rare, but it’s real.

Most cases that people bring up—especially thanks to movies and TikTok—aren’t actual possessions. Around 95% of the time, it’s something else, like mental illness or emotional trauma. And that’s not to downplay anyone’s experience, but to say: we have to approach this with care, not fear.

However, that leaves 5% of cases that are legit. Situations where things happen that just can’t be explained away—violent behavior, dramatic personality shifts, physical strength beyond normal, speaking languages the person never learned, or knowing things they shouldn’t know.

In Hawaii, where multiple spiritual systems exist—from Christianity to Native Hawaiian beliefs, Buddhism, and more—there’s a unique reverence for these kinds of situations. It’s not taken lightly. In fact, the state is said to have only one recognized exorcist. And here’s the kicker: no one knows who it is unless they truly need help. It’s that serious.

Respecting the Spiritual World in Hawaii

In the islands, stories of the Night Marchers, haunted heiaus (sacred sites), and ancestral spirits aren’t just legends—they’re part of everyday life. Whether you believe in them literally or see them as metaphors for cultural respect and memory, these stories carry real weight.

Hawaiians have always acknowledged that there’s more to life than what we can see. That energy lives in places, people, and stories. And when it comes to ghosts and spirits, the advice is usually the same: show respect, don’t disturb what you don’t understand, and always be mindful.

Talking to the Spirits

One beautiful piece of advice that came up in a conversation with a local expert was about how to talk to your loved ones who’ve passed on.

You don’t need a special ritual or fancy words. Just talk to them the way you did when they were alive. The personality—the essence—of who they were is still there. If you speak to them in some overly formal or spooky way, they might not even recognize you!

This simplicity is powerful. It reminds us that death doesn’t erase our bonds. It transforms them.

Final Thoughts

Parapsychology isn’t here to prove or disprove ghosts. It’s about exploring those things that make us wonder, reflect, and question what we know about life, death, and what might come after.

In Hawaii, where ancient wisdom and modern science live side by side, the line between spiritual and everyday life is beautifully blurred. Whether you’re someone who’s seen spirits, felt haunted, or just really curious—know this: you’re not alone, and the conversation is far from over.

Respect the energy. Listen to the stories. And always, always trust your gut.